Barbara Hippler, special education teacher and learning coach, shares her extensive expertise for parents of autistic schoolchildren. Her proven recommendations range from school collaboration and individual support measures to establishing helpful routines at home.
Parents of autistic children can use certain strategies and recommendations to improve their child’s school experience. Here are some important tips:
1. cooperation with the school
- Open communication: Maintain regular contact with teachers, inclusion assistants and school psychologists.
- Share information: Share important information about your child’s needs and strengths with the school.
- Create clarity: Ask for clear structures and routines to be integrated into everyday school life.
2. demand individualised support
- Support plans: Make sure that an individual support plan is drawn up.
- Compensation for disadvantages: Check whether your child is entitled to compensation for disadvantages, such as more time during examinations, aids or quiet examination rooms.
- Inclusion assistant: If necessary, apply for a school assistant (e.g. for social interaction or organisation).
3. promote understanding of the child’s needs
- Sensitise teachers: Ask for teachers to be informed about autism if they have little experience.
- Promote social inclusion: Support the school in creating inclusive behaviour and a respectful classroom climate.
4. create structures
- Visual aids: Encourage the school to use visual schedules, checklists, or other support materials.
- Preparation for changes: Ask the school to inform your child about changes (e.g. substitute lessons or excursions) in good time.
5. support at home
- Rituals: Create fixed routines that structure the school day (e.g. homework time, breaks).
- Emotional support: Talk to your child about their feelings and experiences at school.
- Enable relaxation: Plan enough time for rest periods or favourite activities after a hard day at school.
6. exchange with other parents and experts
- Parent groups: Network with other parents of autistic children to get tips and support.
- Involve therapists: Consult specialists such as occupational therapists, speech therapists or behavioural therapists if necessary.
7. have realistic expectations
- Gradual goals: Set achievable goals that help your child to develop without being overwhelmed.
- Show acceptance: Respect your child’s learning pace and individual abilities.
With patience, understanding and close co-operation, parents can help to ensure that their child is successful and happy at school.